After reading your whole story, I think you have enough arguments to open a case and request Discretionary Leave to Remain
look it up on google…

Good luck!

As a trans woman, I derive a huge amount of strength from my Quaker friends. Shortly after I transitioned last year, I marched with the Quakers at my first London Pride (because I didn’t want to be part of this or that divisive splinter of the ‘community’). It was good, especially when we walked past the odd people with the shouty voices and the bigoted posters telling us that God doesn’t like us.

As a Quaker, I look no further for divinity than myself – and the people around me. It has been empowering as I walk through London to look for that of God – or the divine, or goodness, because I actually don’t know what it is inside me and other people – in anyone walking towards me. It allowed me to smile, not to feel so afraid, to start off with “what do I like about you?” and most often to get a smile in return.

The eight or nine women in my tiny meeting, in their sixties and seventies, accept and love me just as I am. We don’t do God very much, but we know that there’s something special about each of us (and not just the nine or ten who sit together, sometimes snoring, on Sunday mornings).

The trouble is, as a member of the evangelical Christian wing pointed out on Radio 4 when challenged (“If Quakers can accept same-sex marriage, why can’t you?”), there are only a few tens of thousands of us. We’re a minority in gentle decline. We don’t evangelise, we hardly advertise and it seems bloody difficult to become one.

Is it such a bad thing to be religious? Because becoming a Quaker and beginning to live our testimonies of truth, peace, equality and simplicity feels like the most modern thing I’ve ever done.

2nd following a serious assault in 2002 ,a month after my marriage i couldn’t carry on with normal life stresses and my relationship with my wife.thus she thought that i might have being having an affair or do not love her any more ,which i don’t blame her at all,as i was not able to communicate with her then.but i tried to talked to her but i couldn’t manage to do so.

3rd as i was trying to cope cope with my stresses i found otu that i was Hiv positive and in 2006 i had stomach cancer and had only 5percent chance of surving it.but i made it through.i tried again to explain to my wife but to no avail and she didn’t wish to make contact with me and has already started a new life.

so now i’ve lost my job due to legal reason and the solicitors is being a complete ass about thingand ive lost all my saving.now am living on pure goodwill from friends i made over my working and living carreer.so does that make me a bad person.i don’t know where to turn and what to do.now i just feeel like i need to end it all.to make matters worst i come from a muslim family and i’ve already breach my parent approval in marrying someone from a different back ground.but to be honest i don’t give a dame about relogion.i just want my life back and be human. can any one give me some genuine advice.